My dungeon playroom is equipped with a St. Andrews cross, spanking bench, massage table and full-sized leather sling. It is lit with subdued colored lights and candles. New Age music sets the mood.

I have a substantial collection of toys, including restraints, insertibles, a humbler, a violet wand and a TENS unit. My impact toys include a variety of floggers, leather and wood paddles, straps, crops and canes.

My dungeon occupies a self contained room in my apartment, which has a private, ground-level entrance. I live in a safe suburban neighborhood just south of the Beltway in Virginia. Parking is not an issue.