Why I insist on screening
The woman's physical risk is always greater than yours.
When you meet in this context, the woman is far more at risk than the man in terms of personal safety, always. He is almost always larger and stronger. Giving me screening information does not increase your personal safety risk at all but it decreases mine dramatically because the knowledge that he could potentially be tracked down is a deterrent to someone who might think about trying something. Even in the event that a woman is a scammer who has someone onsite to rob you, advance screening does not assist her in that endeavor. If that is her game, screening you is a waste of time.
Worried about blackmail? Think it through. This is not a one way situation.
You have my contact information and are reading my website. If you have come to my playroom, you know where it is. The site where you probably found me has my damn passport. Preferred411 knows more about me than the IRS and another lady had to vouch for me to get me in there. If I were to come after you, then you would have the means to make at least as much trouble for me. Of course this is small consolation if an unscrupulous asshole decides to blow your life up, but I have as much to lose as you do, and I suggest you take this into consideration in selecting dommes. A woman who has a presence in her local community and a vanilla residence, probably a vanilla job, doesn't want to be fucked with any more than you do. It is mutually assured destruction and it works. If I were to let an anonymous submissive visit me, he would be the only one holding a nuclear trigger.
Now let me offer you some logic regarding law enforcement.
Law enforcement seeking to entrap you will NOT ask for screening information.
They will make it as easy as possible for you to show up and be arrested. Identifying information does not allow them to arrest you. You have to show up for a date for them to make a strong case against you. Simply providing your information is something another person could have done without your knowledge. Asking for it decreases their chances of success. IT IS THE SERVICE PROVIDER WHO ASKS FOR NO INFORMATION AND JUST WANTS TO GET YOU TO HER HOTEL ROOM WHO SHOULD SCARE YOU. If she isn't a cop she is likely to be desperate, and desperate is bad mojo when someone is holding a whip.
Law enforcement is more likely to dangle photos of hot young girls. Bait that catches the most fish.
Law enforcement rarely goes after dominatrixes.
It is much more straightforward to make a prostitution case when there is actual sex involved. They go after the low hanging fruit.
Fairfax County's prosecutor views prostitution cases as unimportant. This was written in outrage but made me his top supporter. If you are local you should support him, too. If he doesn't prosecute massage parlors, do you really think a pro domme who does a few sessions is anywhere near his radar? Spend your energy worrying about something more dire, like climate change or creeping authoritarianism.