About References and Screening
How much screening I require is subjective, depending on the kind of session you are looking for and how comfortable I feel about you. If you have a reference from another legitimate domme that is a gold standard. References from escorts are also helpful, as is membership at Preferred411. If you have a profile at fetlife, collarspace or a swingers' site, give me the link. A profile on one of these sites that is seasoned (not new) helps a lot. If you have reviews on TER, give me that link also. I will require a REAL cell phone number at the very least and if I don't have enough information to feel comfortable I will have to ask for personal data, like Facebook profiles or work contact info.
Here is the information I request from you.
Name
Age
Height and weight
Phone (I will never call unexpectedly but a real cell number billed to you, NOT something like Burner or Google Voice, is required to confirm a date.)
Online profile name (fetlife, collarspace, perhaps a swingers' site?)
Have you played before? What mistresses have you seen? References from escorts are good also. Please give contact info (website/email/phone). If you have a P411 ID include that.
What have you actually experienced? What activities interest you? Some possibilities: bondage, cock torture, spanking, flogging, golden showers, wax, pegging, anal training, foot worship, nipple torture, tease and denial.
What toys excite you? Some options: floggers, straps, crops, clamps, clothespins, wax, dildoes, humbler, restraints, violet wand, TENS unit
Are you interested in a roleplay scenario?
Date and time. (Be specific if you have something in mind, or give a general idea of your availability.)